Yes! Ike Turner, The Mean Man Machine who swore was the best thing that could have ever happened to Tina.This is the same man that made Tina question her womanhood, her sanity, her life!
"At least He said that He loved Her" This comment would come from one of my special clients
I get situations like this all of the time. A woman who hasn't spoken to her boyfriend in over 4 months has the nerve to get angry at me because she's paid for a session and I didn't tell her that her boyfriend would propose in the upcoming year. Yes, that's right. She hasn't spoken to him in a very long time but she's still banking on getting married to this man because he has never said anything otherwise. Now this is where Common Sense is Not So Common in the World.
Not only does this conversation become a bit exhausting even for me and I do deal with plenty in this realm, I'm bothered that this woman is in her mid 40's and she has gone through the majority of her life so far thinking this way. In a quick judgement, oblivious to the obvious that her man has moved on without her.
As the conversation continue, this particular client wants to tell me that other readers have told her otherwise (aha!) I then have to explain to her, if the other readers told her exactly what she had wanted to hear, what would make her day, she had no reason to come to visit me. Just a Typical Day in my world.
Here are some Common Sense when Sense is not so Common Advice about Dating someone who has filed your head up with false hope.
*Just because you're intimate doesn't constitute a next date, a phone call or even a marriage.
*Just take things for what they are sometimes ? Are we all living in some fantasy notion that when you give something away be it your time, love, or intimate possession that there is a guarantee of something greater in return ? remember sometimes the fantasy is much greater than the reality of the true situation
* If you haven't heard from someone in a very long while, more than likely you weren't that important to him or her.
*Why make someone a priority when they are making you an option ?
*Actions really do speak louder than words! Someone can say that they love you. This person may even be nice but if you aren't feeling it. If you don't see it, then it's almost like not having the love at all. What's the point ?
The point is this. Someone can say anything that you want to hear. Someone like Mr. Turner. Would you believe him if he had a boxing glove on and you had a black eye ?
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